Hello all, this is going to be a long post so I'm sorry in advance for wordiness. I'll hop right into explaining the situation, then provide my thoughts at the bottom.
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We have a new executive principal this year who used to work in the junior high, but now works in the high school. He is strict, a bit of a micro-manager, but if you do your job well and do what you're supposed to you never hear from him and he leaves you alone. He's great at enforcing discipline and rules, but seems to have taken it to an extreme at times... at least, in my opinion. We also have a new SPED teacher who just graduated from college and is not familiar with policies, the building, or how to handle certain situations, as she is a brand-new first year teacher.
Earlier in the year, we had a custodian who was always late to work. As the custodians are the only ones with keys to the bathrooms, that meant that all the bathrooms in that wing of the building were locked until she got there. One morning, our SPED teacher had one of her students come up to her asking what restroom to use. He had some medical issues and was taking laxatives suggested by the doctor every morning, and really needed to go but the bathrooms were locked. She walked him to some of the other bathrooms in the wing, but they were all locked. Next, she went to the office to try and ask someone in there what to do/where to go, but nobody was in there. However, the principal's bathroom was there and open, so the student just asked if he could use this one. She said he looked very uncomfortable and upset, so she said yes and let him use it.
The secretary walks in and asks what's happening, when the teacher tells her she starts making a huge deal and saying how she can't do that, students aren't allowed in there, there is no reason for this to happen, etc. Once the student comes out, the secretary was walking past him and made a grossed out "ugh" noise and very blatantly pulled away like she was avoiding touching him as she walked past. Again, the teacher said the student looked very uncomfortable and embarrassed.
Later, the new principal comes down and pulls the teacher out of her classroom to chastise her for letting a student use the restroom. Even given the circumstances, she said he didn't care and was telling her there are rules and policies for a reason and that under no circumstances are students allowed in those restrooms. After he chastises her strictly enough that she said he made her cry (which admittedly could have also been due to high stress of this year and being a first-year teacher in SPED), he then proceeds to pull the student out of class and chastise him in the hallway for going into those restrooms and using them. Basically reiterating the rules and how he's not allowed to do any of that, despite the circumstances, then mentioned how there were bathrooms available in the other wings of the school.
A few days later, once everything had calmed down, he found out that this was happening due to the custodian being late to work and apparently talked to her and told her she has to be here for work at start time, not an hour later than everyone else, since she's the one to unlock the bathrooms.
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First question I have, is this a normal policy? I know that sometimes there are weird policies that are put in place for a reason, such as maybe keeping adults and children out of the same bathroom or something. So is there some official precedent that makes this incredibly important and that's why he was so adamant?
Second, should I report this? Assuming the first question is yes and there was a valid reason for acting this way, I *cannot* under any means rationalize him pulling the kid who is already mortified out of class to chastise him. The student did exactly what he was supposed to do and asked a teacher for guidance, even though it was a medically induced problem, and did exactly what he was supposed to. If *anybody* was to get in trouble in that situation, it should be the teacher. Now, in the future that student will definitely not ask that teacher for support or guidance anymore, because the last time he did was an incredibly mortifying and embarrassing situation. I don't want to seem overly sensitive about this, it just really sits the wrong way with me that he put this student through this and probably ruined a teacher-student relationship in the SPED department.
I've talked around with other teachers a bit in just a chit-chat way, and it seems like most people know about this and everyone thinks it's wrong but looked the other way because they're intimidated by the new principal. I'm just so unsure what to do or if this is normal. I'm pursuing a career in admin, eventually, and I just don't know if I can do it and turn my head if this is a normal expectation. Any help/advice is appreciated.
Submitted October 30, 2021 at 10:35AM by Theexilez https://ift.tt/3Cv5mKT