I never want to ask this question in first place.
But I recently saw a movie shorts where a girl with low score in her 12 standard studies for NEET exam to avoid quick marriage. But her new NEET group friends slowly moved away from that girl as she took long time to answer properly. Those friends sat in hidden garden areas or separate hidden study tables to avoid seeing the girl , so the NEET group friends can study to get high marks in their NEET final exam. the girl as single person sits alone , reads on her own and she got 53 percent when the girl thought she would only get 50 percent
By seeing that girl in movie shorts, I (27F) felt that I (27F) am seeing myself from my school and college time.
In my school and college times , I asked some topper students of my class to help me with some of my subjects. What the topper students said I still remember few, " I want to study alone" , " I do not have time. I need to study with my friends( who were toppers) " , " I have to have study for my exam. If I do not get high scores , my parents will scold me. " , etc.
The toppers study hard. Even some of my teachers tried to connect me with toppers. Some toppers did help me for one day and next day when I went to ask other doubts , the same toppers would say, " i forgot what I studied for yesterday. You read on your own."
Some teachers did have open talks with toppers to explain about the studies and sometimes those teachers did share about their life history with toppers. The same teachers would only say to me , " Focus on studies"
I am not jealous . I felt hurt.
What do you think about this? Is this normal?
Submitted May 23, 2026 at 01:57AM by RhubarbPleasant2347 https://ift.tt/bV0LFI5