Ever wondered how to become popular at school?

Here are some tips I've learnt about becoming popular

Back in high school I used to be really unpopular, not to many people liked me, so going to college gave me a fresh start. One of my goals of going to college was to become as popular as possible. And here are a list of things that I found that make you popular and which makes girls flock you:

Don't be an asshole

Don't give a crap about other people's opinions of you

Find a group of mates right of the bat and connect with more people from there.

Be enthusiastic with everyone you meet and be unique but don't be weird at all

Become genuinely interested in other people

Don't be afraid to go up to pretty girls, they're just people

Don't be afraid to make a joke (even bad ones, how else are you meant to learn? ofc dont make them weird ones)

Don't be afraid to take bad jokes, people are gonna make bad jokes about u eventually, dont take it to heart, they dont actually mean what they say

Just remember that humour is possibly the best thing you can use as leverage and is the most charismatic thing you can do (dont over do it, there's a fine balance, if you over do it then people will see you as a joker)

Dress well

Approach as many people as possible, the more the better

Build your confidence, if you cant then the least you could do is fake it using body language tips and then you can fake it till u become it

Straight back, shoulders back, head slightly back, chin straight, dont walk slow but dont EVER be in a rush, be relaxed with how you move and how you speak

always wear an accessory, chains are overrated, watches give u that classy look

There are probably more things that I'm forgetting and this is probably the most 'unpopular' ah thing I could be doing but I only got popular to see what it's like and frankly the complications is a bit much and but the benefits you get by becoming popular is unreal. Would I do it again? probably not, it's a bit time-consuming with the amount of people you've gotta maintain connection with.

For those of you that want a more in-depth guide to becoming popular then there's only TWO books you need to read.
'How to win friends and influence people' AND 'Models'

Submitted November 07, 2025 at 05:15AM by Kitchen-Hunt9128 https://ift.tt/fnBozk6